Valentina Iadeluca

Psychologist & Psychotherapist

Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy

Primary Attachment Therapy
Passion & Presence®
CBT
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

Welcome!

PSYCHOLOGIST, SOMATIC PSYCHOTHERAPIST
CERTIFIED HAKOMI THERAPIST & TEACHER
MINDFULNESS TEACHER & TRAINER
AUTHOR

Before we begin any deep and intimate work together, it is important for you to take the time to understand who I am, what experience I have, and my vision. Take the time on to consider whether the counselling I offer could be right for you at this moment in time.

First and foremost, I’m a licensed, internationally trained psychologist and somatic psychotherapist. I was also the first Certified Hakomi Therapist & Trainer in Italy. Building on this foundation, I have travelled the world seeking out effective healing techniques from Eastern and Western schools of thought, so my clients can count on a fully personalized, caring and, above all, effective approach to their mental health.

The body remembers, the bones remember, the joints remember, even the little finger remembers. Memory is lodged in pictures and feelings in the cells themselves.
C.P. Estes

My Approach

My approach to psychotherapy is mainly inspired by the Hakomi Method, integrated with techniques from Primary Attachment Therapy.

Hakomi MSP is a gentle yet powerful approach based on the following guiding principles:

Primary Attachment Therapy is designed to uncover how we learned to exist and connect with others in our earliest years of life. These “ways-of-being-with-the-other” keep shaping our interpersonal world. They are sometimes at the very core of our sense of dissatisfaction as we encounter the people we love.

In addition to exploring your personal experiences, feelings and emotions, we will take time to observe the bodily sensations that accompany them.

I have been trained in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), which allows me to calibrate work on deeper issues, acting on the symptoms that a person finds limiting and accompanying them in identifying the right strategies that will empower them to face and overcome the challenges of life, whether large or small.

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NEW! Available in bookstores and on Amazon from June 2025

Far entrare il corpo nella Terapia Cognitivo Comportamentale

This book aims to encourage the field of CBT to incorporate the body into therapy and to view it as an essential source of insight for understanding patients and their distress. The goal is to make the body an integral part of their journey toward healing. Today, scientific research increasingly challenges the idea that the mind is an ethereal entity located in the head, disconnected from the physical body. In reality, the mind is a widespread, emergent, embodied process that resides in every cell of our being. Like a sponge, the body continually adapts and responds to life’s small and large challenges by developing contractions, tensions, pains, or illnesses. It is often the first to bear the impact when psychological difficulties arise. Therefore, learning to make space for the somatic dimension in therapy and to intervene with sensitivity in this area means adopting a deeper, more comprehensive, and transformative approach to treatment.

Polyvagal Theory in Action

What makes some people respond effectively and creatively to life’s challenges? What makes them able to re-emerge from pain and difficulties quickly? The answer is the flexibility of their Nervous System.
Polyvagal Theory elucidates how the Nervous System responds to safety or danger inputs detected in the environment, determining our feelings and our narratives about reality.
Wired to Connect is a group program that teaches how to recognize the impact of these processes on our experience and to dialogue with our biology, re-educating it to dwell in a state of regulation.
Our ancestral need for connection – to ourselves, others, and life – can find fulfillment here.
The authors integrate disciplines as diverse as yoga, meditation, or music and structure a path rich with practical tools such as theoretical windows, exercises, and guided immersions in mindfulness. The program’s conduction is simple and accessible to psychologists, psychotherapists, teachers, educators, community workers, and health professionals.

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

This book is the Italian edition of the volume by Woods and Rockman, “Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction. Protocol, practice, and teaching skills”, which I translated into Italian and edited. It is a comprehensive guide to facilitating the 8-week program that allows instructors to teach the heart of MBSR.

Meditare con la vita

Mindfulness is a practice steeped in age-old wisdom that, in its radical essentiality, allows us to regain a sense of freedom and control over our own lives. It consists simply of stopping and observing reality in a non-judgmental way as it presents itself to us here and now. It teaches us to dwell in the moment and fully savor its juice.

The book helps the reader become familiar with meditation in its various forms by presenting numerous mindfulness exercises. The emphasis is on transferring the same quality of presence experienced during meditation into everyday life: from daily tasks to relationships to the profession. It concludes with a review of psychotherapeutic models based on mindfulness.

It concludes with a review of psychotherapeutic models based on mindfulness.

What I offer

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